The older our kids get, the more difficult it can be to plan a holiday with them. And especially once they reach adolescence, it can seem challenging to find activities and destinations that cater for both your and your teenager’s interests.
But with a bit of thoughtful planning, you can have a fantastic vacation that satisfies everyone participating. How? With a few important steps.
Involve your Teenager in the Planning Process
The key to not only a successful family holiday but also your overall relationship with your kids is always to involve them in decision-making and planning. The older and more responsible they get, the more the need to be actively participating and having their voice heard kicks in. Rightfully so! So, from choosing a destination to selecting activities and accommodations – let them have their say in the decision-making process and take it seriously. Few things are so important like being properly heard.
Try to right away opt for destinations that offer a variety of activities that cater to different interests. Create a good mix of outdoor adventures, cultural experiences, or relaxation by the beach – depending on what both you and your teenagers want. Selecting a location that has something for everyone creates great opportunities. But plan age-appropriate! If your teenager loves adventure, schedule activities like hiking, water sports, or zip lining. There are great family activity holidays out there, that can cater to that. If they have a passion for history or art, plan visits to museums or historical sites. A mix of exciting and educational experiences can keep them quite engaged.
Give Them Space
The older they get, the more independence they need. This is why it’s essential to provide them with a bit of personal space and free time, too. Depending on the destination, you can allow them to explore the area on their own or with their peers, for example, while maintaining clear communication about meeting points and safety. Giving them their own room, is a big deal, too – as is making sure, that your destination has reliable internet connectivity. Especially if your kid is closely knitted to their social circle, it’ll be crucial for them to keep in touch with friends and stay entertained during downtime. And that’s okay. Even if we as parents do not always understand.
Leaving times open for flexibility and unexpected detours or changes in the schedule might also happen – and sometimes, the best moments of a holiday happen, when you veer off the planned path! It’s important to stay adaptable and to be ready to embrace new opportunities, as they arise. Don’t be scared to let your teenager take the rein.
Communicate & Listen
And lastly, every good foundation is based on communication. It’s vital, in every aspect – like when it comes to planning a holiday. Discuss expectations, rules, and any concerns before the trip. Encourage them to voice their preferences and listen! Showing empathy can help build a stronger connection during the journey, but also tighten your relationship. It can be an incredibly rewarding experience to involve your kids in the planning process – both for you, as well as for their development and role in the family, as well as gaining their independence and sooner than later growth into responsible adults.
